You know how we always say "we should totally hang out sometime"? This time we're actually doing it. This is the first one.

WSTHO is a monthly meetup for women who want real friendships in South Jersey. No networking, no icebreakers, no activity you have to join in on. Just women in the same room often enough that acquaintances turn into friends.

📍 Cinder Bar — 410 Berlin–Cross Keys Rd, Williamstown 🗓️ 3rd Wednesday each month! 🕖 7:00–9:00 PM WOMEN ONLY · 21+ · 25–45-ish (a vibe, not a cutoff)

Come alone. Seriously. You don't need to bring a friend to a meetup designed to help you make friends. Everyone walking in is in exactly the same boat as you.

Grab dinner or don't. Order a drink or don't. Everyone runs a separate tab, so get exactly what you want and nothing else. Alcohol is available and completely optional — nobody's going to ask why you're not drinking.

I'll have some casual board and card games on the table for anyone who wants something to do with their hands while they talk, and you're welcome to bring your own favorite. This is not a game night. Play something, play nothing, talk the whole time.

Come once and you're in the group chat. Everyone who shows up gets an invite to our private Discord — for keeping in touch between meetups, sharing local stuff, and making your own plans with women you've actually met. It's invite-only and requires coming in person.

RSVP: Let me know if you're planning to attend so I can give Cinder Bar a realistic headcount. An RSVP is not a blood oath — life happens. And if your plans open up at 6:30, just come.

If this really takes off, we may end up needing to try to cap the attendance or consider another venue!!